两面讨好在两派之间摇摆或保持中间立场以讨好双方的人。例两面讨好以求万全。英trim; be on both sides of the fence; fuctuate between two parties so as to appear to favour each; run with the hare and hunt with the hounds; try to keep favour of both sides;
讨好为得到好感或讨人喜欢而去迎合某人。例他在那里自吹自擂他的举止总是要讨好这一地区的家庭主妇。英ingratiate oneself with; fawn on sb.; curry favor with sb.;得到好效果。例费力不讨好。英have one's labour rewarded; be rewarded with a fruitful result;