拔苗助长即揠苗助长嫌禾苗长得慢而用手向上提以助其生长。比喻不顾事物发展的客观规律强求速成反而把事情搞坏。例他还是个孩子呀,可别拔苗助长哟!英pull up the rice shoots with the intention of helping them to grow; try to help the shoots grow by pulling them upw
揠苗助长古时候宋国有个人嫌禾苗长得太慢,就一棵棵地往上拔起一点。后来用来比喻不顾事物的发展规律急于求成,反把事情弄坏。例揠苗助长苦心极力卒无所得也。——宋吕本中《紫微杂说》英spoil things by excessive enthusiasm as one who tries to help the shoots grew by